Why Do Men Lose Interest In Their Wives After Few Years In Marriage?

Keeping a marriage relationship alive and vibrant requires work. It may be surprising to some but as years pass in a marriage, the effort required to keep it alive and vibrant increases. Here are some marital tips to help make the work a little easier for the women. These relationship tips for women are essential building blocks for keeping your man interested and keeping your marriage alive.

We know that a man can lose interest in the woman he loves, even his wife. Many women are tearful as they recount the last few months (or years) of their marriage that seemed so wonderful in the beginning. Slowly, they notice that he has stopped touching them as often and seems uninterested in being with them or even staying married. They pass each other in the kitchen, and he avoids eye contact and simply continues walking…just like she doesn't even exist. But it doesn't have to end that way. You can save your marriage. With a smile and a wink!!

Some Rasons why husbands lose interest in their wives:

1. If the wife has let herself go such as physically and does not bother to put on makeup every so often; brush her hair and look reasonably neat.
2. A woman who is constantly nagging the minute her husband is around her and never compliments him for anything he does do.
3. A woman who spends too much time with her children and seldom gets a babysitter so her and her husband can go out together on the occasional night. There is no excuse not to get a babysitter because if it is about not being able to afford a babysitter then one can trade off with a friend who has children.
4. Women who know their libido is low and do not seek help from their doctor. Some women going through perimenopause and menopause can have a very low libido and it is up to her to assure her husband it is not about him, but her hormonal changes and to educate him on the subject.
5. Putting down a husband in front of friends or taking 'shots' at him every chance she can.
6. Being disinterested in what he has to say and expects him to listen to everything she has to say.
7. Then there are simply some men who lose interest in their wives for no reason other than wanting to prove to themselves other women are attracted to them.

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Marriage is supposed to be a union that should last until death do the both partners apart. And relationship should reach its set goals which often time happens to be marriage. But why do these unions break? There are three main reasons why these agreement within two adults doesn't reach its desired goal. 

1) Lack of love: This most times is the reason why marriages and relationships end. Because so many people do not understand what love really is. They feel it's just a feeling for an opposite sex not knowing love has nothing to do with feelings. Love is a choice and a drive that drives us to understand and respect someone for a life time. When people attach love to feelings or emotion they tend to use words like this in future " I don't feel anything for him or her again" love must be a career you must build it, it must have some set goals as one of its qualities. You cannot love someone and cheat on that person except you confuse feelings for love that is why people would say they love their wife or partner yet they cheat on them. Some have even gone as far as saying love is not a yardstick not to cheat, you can still love your partner and cheat. Well, such persons confuse love for feelings.

2) Lack of good sex: When this is jettison in marriage, it tends to promote infidelity and can cause a misunderstanding. Sex is very important in marriage. Constant ignoring of sexual activities in marriage has led so many marriages to break up. Sex helps to relieve stress, it creates bond, it procreates and it is the zenith of fun among married couples. So many couples has suffered as a result of poor sexual activities. So many women has failed to apply some techniques to get orgasm because they have seen sex therapy as secondary in marriage building. So many can hardly explore their wives sexually. When sexual climax is not being achieved in marriage, a sex therapist should be involved immediately. Over looking it is synonymous to over looking your union.

3) Lack of money: They say "money can't buy love" yes that is true but money can keep love. Have you heard that poor people are vulnerable? Husbands have been taken away from their wives and wives have been taken away from their husbands mainly because of lack of love, sex and money. The heart of a woman desires good things and a proud man is he that have provided for his wife. One must not steal to have money to keep a relationship or marriage but must learn the philosophy of how to make money. Balanced view of money in marriage or relationship is vital. Seeing a professional counselor to help you get a balance view of money would help strengthen your union. Poor financial mismanagement has ended so many marriages in court seeking for the termination of their marriage contract and have pushed other partner to seek for financial solution in someone else. Do not be quick to blame them because money in itself cannot buy love but can keep love.