Am Not Ready!!! Because Am Not Wearing A Pant – Speakersden TV
You know the cliche. Men don’t like commitment.
Chances are, you’ve dated a guy who seemed to fit this cliche. You’ve probably asked yourself why this happens. And you’ve probably wondered if it’s even possible to get a man to want commitment as much as you do.
Today, I’m going to show you how to reverse a man’s resistance to commitment. And I’m going to show you how to do it by triggering a basic male instinct he simply can’t ignore.
There are specific reasons men avoid commitment. Discover what they are, and you gain the power to transform the way he sees you in his life.
Before we dive into that though, I want to talk a bit about other articles you may have read on this topic.
You’ve probably seen headlines like, “The Real Reason He Won’t Commit” or “Six Signs He’ll Never Commit.” These types of articles are everywhere. And they tend to say things like, “he’s not ready to settle down,” “he wants to play the field,” and “he’s just not that into you.”
Now there are definitely “players” out there. Men who just want someone they can hook up with. Someone who won’t get in the way of their desire to live free and do whatever they want.
I can’t help you with those men.
If a guy flat out tells you he just wants to see you casually. Or you know he’s seeing other women and has no desire to stop. Well, you’re probably better off investing your relationship energy elese where.
You and this guy have been hooking up for a few months. And I'm not just talking late-night booty calls here. I'm saying you have a toothbrush at his place and can't remember the last day you've gone without texting him. But, because you haven't had the infamous "what are we?" talk yet, the two of you still aren't officially in a relationship. Being in relationship purgatory was fine the first couple months, but it's starting to get to you, so you finally have "the talk," and he hits you with the old "I'm not ready for a relationship right now" line.
He's not ready for a relationship right now? WTF does that mean? Especially after the two of you have essentially been in a relationship for all intents and purposes for the past three months. Is he actually as emotionally unavailable as he claims to be, or is this just an easy way for him to say "it's not you, it's me"?
Ah, dating. It can be so fun, so exciting, so romantic—and yet so utterly confusing. I don’t know about you, but I’ve been in one too many situations where I wished I could just get inside a guy’s head.
I’ve written before about how important shared intentions are in a dating relationship. And that’s because I’ve been in situations where it became all too clear, all too late, that my beau and I weren’t on the same page. The biggest issue: I’m ready to move forward, and he’s not.
Most of my girlfriends know exactly what I’m talking about. They, too, have been in relationships (I’m talking boyfriend–girlfriend official status) that ended because he told her he wasn’t ready. It was moving too fast for him. He cared for her very much but couldn’t match her feelings. He preferred to be alone.
This readiness excuse feels like a cop-out. These are guys who have been genuinely attentive and caring. Who’ve been pursuant and, well, loving. How does everything change one day when he decides he’s just not ready to be with her?
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